Angels in the Aisles?

I did something today that elicited stares, whispers, and even a gasp. Something daring, adventurous and perhaps even a little bit Grocery Shopping - A Family Affaircrazy. I took my children to the grocery store. Not a quick trip to the convenience store for a gallon of milk, but a full-blown, pre-Passover holiday shopping. You might think I took them to climb Mount Everest, the way people were gaping at me. I even heard one woman murmur to her preteen daughter “Wow, I’m glad that I’m past that stage of life.” The truth is, I’ve been taking my kids to the grocery store for the past seven years. Granted, it wasn’t such a big deal when there were only one or two of them. But for some reason, dragging the whole brood seems to be looked at as a peculiar thing to do.

Let’s face it – I work upwards of 50 hours a week. And when I’m not working, I’m probably cleaning, cooking or sleeping. That is, of course, when I’m not helping with homework, bathing the children or doing the laundry. Every once in a blue moon I open a book, sit down for a movie or hang out with a friend. I’m not a hero; I’m just a typical working mother. But why would I want to sacrifice some of my rare, hard-earned quiet time to go to the noisy grocery store alone? And which of the things on my above schedule could I rationally exclude?

I see no choice other than to take my children to the grocery store on a regular basis. But this isn’t the only reason I do it. With regular trips to the grocery store, I’ve been able to teach the kids how to behave in the store, pick the freshest produce, find healthy snacks and plan the week’s menu so that they’ll actually eat what I serve. I (hope) I’ve taught them that food doesn’t just show up in the pantry, but that each item is selected with care, and schlepped home with love by a tired parent. I am able to spend an hour in the store without tantrums, bickering or losing a child.

At the end of each trip, I treat each child to a bottle of chocolate milk or a fresh cookie from the bakery (I haven’t yet introduced them to the candy aisle). I may spend a few extra bucks on these items, but I think that I actually save more than that, because with the kids in tow, I spend way less time strolling down the aisles and throwing unnecessary items into my cart.

Today, while sipping her chocolate milk contently on the way home, Hollie (6), sighed and said ‘you’re the best mom ever.’ That isn’t true, of course – but it sure makes the effort and the extra dollar all the more worthwhile.

 

 

sari

Yup, it's true. I write all day for work - and now, apparently, I write for fun too.

 

5 thoughts on “Angels in the Aisles?

  1. I do see your point…. about saving money that is. I don’t mind taking my private time to grocery shop, as long as it is just that- private, alone time…

  2. Love this Sari! You’re a great mom! When I shlep my kids to the grocery store, I am so zonked after work that I have zero patience for my kids- especially when they are constantly trying to pull each other’s hair. What a nice idea to keep them engaged in the actual shopping!

  3. Great post. I also often take my kids shopping. We budget for one treat each up to 5 shekels and a bag of Shoko and they are happy campers. And its an activity for them as well, which means they are not fighting with each other!

  4. great post! it helps that you have delicious kids who allow you to use a trip to the grocery as a teaching experience. btw, since when did taking your kids to the grocery insure that they would eat what you bought for them? i wish it had worked when my kids were young and i am certain my parents felt the same way!

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